It’s not a good idea to completely ignore your 8-week-old puppy at night. Puppies at this age are still adjusting to their new home and routine. Crying at night is a way for them to communicate their needs, which might include needing comfort, to go potty, or reassurance that they’re safe.
Here’s how to handle it…
Why Ignoring Isn’t Ideal
- They Might Need Something- Puppies have small bladders and may need bathroom breaks every few hours. Ignoring them could result in accidents or discomfort.
- Building Trust- Ignoring a puppy entirely when they cry might make them feel abandoned, which could lead to anxiety or behavioral issues.
- Training Opportunity- Responding appropriately helps teach your puppy when it’s okay to get your attention and when it’s time to settle down.
What to Do Instead
- Set Up for Success
- Create a Comfortable Sleep Space- Use a crate or puppy bed in a quiet, cozy spot. Keep the crate nearby at first, so your puppy feels close to you.
- Tire Them Out Before Bed- Engage in play or light exercise during the evening to ensure they’re ready for sleep.
- Take Them Out Before Bed- A final bathroom break right before bedtime reduces the chances of nighttime waking.
- Responding to Cries
- Check the Basics- If your puppy cries, take a moment to check whether they need to potty, are thirsty, or feel unwell.
- Stay Calm and Consistent- If their needs are met, keep the interaction brief and non-exciting to avoid signaling that nighttime crying means playtime or attention.
- Gradually Teach Them to Settle- Over time, encourage your puppy to self-soothe by reducing how often you respond to unnecessary crying.
Building Independence Over Time
Once your puppy is comfortable and reliably sleeping through longer stretches, you can gradually move their sleeping area farther away from you. This helps them adjust to being alone without feeling abandoned.
When It’s Okay to Ignore Crying
If you’re confident that your puppy doesn’t need anything and they’re crying for attention alone, it’s okay to give them a chance to self-soothe. But ignoring them completely, especially in the early weeks, can make the adjustment harder for both of you.
Patience, consistency, and a gentle approach will help your puppy learn to settle at night—and it won’t take long for you both to sleep soundly.
