When speaking with a breeder, there are certain things you should avoid mentioning or focusing on, as it could raise red flags or come across as inappropriate.

Here’s a list of things not to mention…

“I Want a Puppy for Breeding”

• If you’re not an experienced breeder or do not plan to breed responsibly, this can be a red flag. Ethical breeders often only sell puppies to people who will spay/neuter unless they have an explicit agreement about breeding rights, typically only for experienced and responsible breeders.

“I Want the Cheapest Puppy”

• While it’s important to find a puppy within your budget, focusing too much on price can suggest you’re looking for the lowest-cost option, which can encourage unethical breeders or puppy mills who prioritize profit over the health and well-being of the puppies.

“I Don’t Mind About Health Issues”

• This could signal that you’re willing to overlook potential health issues or genetic concerns. A responsible breeder should prioritize the health of the puppy, and the health history of the parents should be important to you. Never downplay the importance of health clearances or screenings.

“I Want the Rarest Coat Color”

• While certain coat colors or patterns may be visually appealing, focusing too heavily on appearance (like wanting a “rare” coat color) can sometimes indicate that you care more about looks than the dog’s health or temperament. It can also encourage irresponsible breeding practices that prioritize appearance over health.

“I Want a Puppy That Will Be the Calmest or Most Aggressive”

• While it’s okay to want a puppy with a certain temperament, requesting the “calmest” or “most aggressive” puppy can lead to ethical concerns. It may pressure breeders to select puppies based solely on traits like temperament, which could result in poor matchups for your home or family. Temperament can vary widely and should be assessed through interactions rather than simply being chosen.

“I Don’t Want Any of the Puppies with Health Issues”

• While it’s understandable to want a healthy puppy, all puppies can experience health problems in the first few weeks (e.g., mild parasites), and you shouldn’t automatically reject them for minor issues, especially if they are being treated. Instead, ask the breeder about health screenings and genetic testing done on the parents.

“I Don’t Care About Paperwork”

• If you don’t ask about documentation, it can suggest that you’re not interested in verifying the puppy’s health history, vaccinations, and pedigree. A reputable breeder should be transparent and offer health guarantees, vaccination records, and proof of genetic testing for the breeding parents.

“Can You Hold the Puppy for Me Until I Decide?”

• This might imply that you are not serious or committed to purchasing the puppy, and responsible breeders typically want to ensure that puppies go to homes that are ready and able to care for them.

“I Can’t Visit the Facility, Can You Just Ship the Puppy?”

• Never agree to buy a puppy sight unseen, especially if the breeder won’t let you visit the facility. A responsible breeder should always allow potential buyers to meet the puppies and see the environment they are raised in. If shipping or delivery is offered without a proper visit, it could be a sign of a scam or a puppy mill.

“I Don’t Want to Commit to Training or Socialization”

• Puppies require time, attention, and training. If you express that you’re not willing to commit to this essential responsibility, it can be a red flag. Ethical breeders want their puppies to go to homes that will provide proper care and training.

When speaking with a breeder, avoid focusing too much on appearance, price, or immediate convenience over the puppy’s health, well-being, and your ability to provide a long-term, loving home. Be sure to emphasize your commitment to proper care, health checks, and responsible ownership.